ok long story short like 2 weeks ago i got into an arugment about some stupid sh*t with a girl that I have a pretty intense past with. I havent talked ot her since and she hasnt called and i havent tried. I dont know if she wants to talk to me again. How would this come off if i called her: if she anwsers the phone i was thinking about sayin something along the lines of hey im not calling to fight or anything but i feel like talking to you or i want to talk to you. if a message picks up then i would say hey im just callin cause i feel like talking to you if you dont want to talk to me then dont. any other suggestions?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how would this come off to her?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I would let her come to you. If you werent much of a catch in the first place and she doesnt call; call her and ask how she is going to make this up to you or that you will forget about it if she buys you a slab of prime rib :trouble:hpmsrhyme said:
jakeyboy
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HAHA. nice one saki.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
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rhymes, please tell me that you are 16 years old!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
and how old are u yourself? what is the difference who calls who? i would call first after the raw in two cases:
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.