ok long story short like 2 weeks ago i got into an arugment about some stupid sh*t with a girl that I have a pretty intense past with. I havent talked ot her since and she hasnt called and i havent tried. I dont know if she wants to talk to me again. How would this come off if i called her: if she anwsers the phone i was thinking about sayin something along the lines of hey im not calling to fight or anything but i feel like talking to you or i want to talk to you. if a message picks up then i would say hey im just callin cause i feel like talking to you if you dont want to talk to me then dont. any other suggestions?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how would this come off to her?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would let her come to you. If you werent much of a catch in the first place and she doesnt call; call her and ask how she is going to make this up to you or that you will forget about it if she buys you a slab of prime rib :trouble:hpmsrhyme said:
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HAHA. nice one saki.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
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rhymes, please tell me that you are 16 years old!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
and how old are u yourself? what is the difference who calls who? i would call first after the raw in two cases:
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.