ok long story short like 2 weeks ago i got into an arugment about some stupid sh*t with a girl that I have a pretty intense past with. I havent talked ot her since and she hasnt called and i havent tried. I dont know if she wants to talk to me again. How would this come off if i called her: if she anwsers the phone i was thinking about sayin something along the lines of hey im not calling to fight or anything but i feel like talking to you or i want to talk to you. if a message picks up then i would say hey im just callin cause i feel like talking to you if you dont want to talk to me then dont. any other suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
how would this come off to her?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I would let her come to you. If you werent much of a catch in the first place and she doesnt call; call her and ask how she is going to make this up to you or that you will forget about it if she buys you a slab of prime rib :trouble:hpmsrhyme said:
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HAHA. nice one saki.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.
whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.
all the best with your endeavours.
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rhymes, please tell me that you are 16 years old!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????
Are you lonely???
If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
and how old are u yourself? what is the difference who calls who? i would call first after the raw in two cases:
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.