"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how would this come off to her?

hpmsrhyme

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ok long story short like 2 weeks ago i got into an arugment about some stupid sh*t with a girl that I have a pretty intense past with. I havent talked ot her since and she hasnt called and i havent tried. I dont know if she wants to talk to me again. How would this come off if i called her: if she anwsers the phone i was thinking about sayin something along the lines of hey im not calling to fight or anything but i feel like talking to you or i want to talk to you. if a message picks up then i would say hey im just callin cause i feel like talking to you if you dont want to talk to me then dont. any other suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saki

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hpmsrhyme said:
How would this come off if i called her:
I would let her come to you. If you werent much of a catch in the first place and she doesnt call; call her and ask how she is going to make this up to you or that you will forget about it if she buys you a slab of prime rib :trouble:
 

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HAHA. nice one saki.

yeah let her come to you. if she doesn't, her interest level wasn't very high. and she probably didn't treasure your (friendship/relationship?) very much either.

whereupon you can call, and did what saki suggested, or you can fuggit.

all the best with your endeavours. :D
 
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rhymes, please tell me that you are 16 years old!:rolleyes:

Why are you being the girl?? She didn't call you and she is the emotional / sensitive one and yet you volunteer to call her??? WHY??????

Are you lonely???

If you have any dignity you would NOT call her!!!
 

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and how old are u yourself? what is the difference who calls who? i would call first after the raw in two cases:
1. i love the guy and can not live without him
2.i don't give a **** about the guy or raws with him, im just bored and need some entertainment
so even if she calls u first it doesn't say she is in love with u or u re in charge. maybe she is just bored
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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