"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how would other guys use this situation

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well me and this girl i like,we have a bit of a game going,we are pretty open and joke flirtingly,and dont worry how i got there,but i ended up saying, "yeah well i bet you anything you cant get me to fall for you?" and she said she could with little effort,now we have a bit of a word game going,my reply overall was "well if you play your cards right you could be my type,no time to waste you better get to work!"

its a pretty fun game,she plays right back,funny thing is. i do want her lol,and have been lusting over her big time,and at times struggling to keep my cool,this morning i mentioned to her that i saw some comments on her myspace from a guy friend of hers,and i dunno must've conveyed some thing with my face,cause she smiled and said "HA you were checking up on me,you jealous? you want me" i sorta laughed it off,but sometimes she comes out with stuff like that,its hard to tell if she is serious.

also,i have competition in going for her,and i lose the game if i tell her i like her lol,i wanna make sure she's interested 1st,any tips?

out of anything here,specifically with the game and how i could use it for my advantage love some advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's interested. I don't think that can be anymore obvious. Drop the games, take her aside, smile, look into her eyes, then pucker up!

She's all yours.
 
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Change the conditions of the challenge...next time you get into it with her, take her aside, look her in the eyes and say, "You wouldn't even know what to DO with me if you DID get me."

Cam's right...she wants you on SOME level. There's a way to propose a romantic situation without breaking out of your ****y frame.
 
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