"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how would other guys use this situation

ye yeah

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well me and this girl i like,we have a bit of a game going,we are pretty open and joke flirtingly,and dont worry how i got there,but i ended up saying, "yeah well i bet you anything you cant get me to fall for you?" and she said she could with little effort,now we have a bit of a word game going,my reply overall was "well if you play your cards right you could be my type,no time to waste you better get to work!"

its a pretty fun game,she plays right back,funny thing is. i do want her lol,and have been lusting over her big time,and at times struggling to keep my cool,this morning i mentioned to her that i saw some comments on her myspace from a guy friend of hers,and i dunno must've conveyed some thing with my face,cause she smiled and said "HA you were checking up on me,you jealous? you want me" i sorta laughed it off,but sometimes she comes out with stuff like that,its hard to tell if she is serious.

also,i have competition in going for her,and i lose the game if i tell her i like her lol,i wanna make sure she's interested 1st,any tips?

out of anything here,specifically with the game and how i could use it for my advantage love some advice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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She's interested. I don't think that can be anymore obvious. Drop the games, take her aside, smile, look into her eyes, then pucker up!

She's all yours.
 

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Change the conditions of the challenge...next time you get into it with her, take her aside, look her in the eyes and say, "You wouldn't even know what to DO with me if you DID get me."

Cam's right...she wants you on SOME level. There's a way to propose a romantic situation without breaking out of your ****y frame.
 
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