"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how would other guys use this situation

ye yeah

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well me and this girl i like,we have a bit of a game going,we are pretty open and joke flirtingly,and dont worry how i got there,but i ended up saying, "yeah well i bet you anything you cant get me to fall for you?" and she said she could with little effort,now we have a bit of a word game going,my reply overall was "well if you play your cards right you could be my type,no time to waste you better get to work!"

its a pretty fun game,she plays right back,funny thing is. i do want her lol,and have been lusting over her big time,and at times struggling to keep my cool,this morning i mentioned to her that i saw some comments on her myspace from a guy friend of hers,and i dunno must've conveyed some thing with my face,cause she smiled and said "HA you were checking up on me,you jealous? you want me" i sorta laughed it off,but sometimes she comes out with stuff like that,its hard to tell if she is serious.

also,i have competition in going for her,and i lose the game if i tell her i like her lol,i wanna make sure she's interested 1st,any tips?

out of anything here,specifically with the game and how i could use it for my advantage love some advice
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KillaCam

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She's interested. I don't think that can be anymore obvious. Drop the games, take her aside, smile, look into her eyes, then pucker up!

She's all yours.
 

squirrels

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Change the conditions of the challenge...next time you get into it with her, take her aside, look her in the eyes and say, "You wouldn't even know what to DO with me if you DID get me."

Cam's right...she wants you on SOME level. There's a way to propose a romantic situation without breaking out of your ****y frame.
 
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