"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how would a guy be sexually aggresseive any examples of what to do

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The last post on nerds getting no action. i wondered . what do you mean by being sexually aggressive. how would you do this through body language and kino. what are some examples a guy would do on a date to a girl to show he was sexually aggressive with her.
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
what would you say or how do you be sexually aggressive with the girls you are with. -

Ingenuinity. Ingenuinity is a big reason why a lot of guys don't get laid. Even guys who DO get laid using methods and stuff, have this problem. To put it simply, they go up to a women and they're not being totally honest with her. This is a big problem with using lines and stuff. However, if the lines and stuff have been embedded into your REAL personality, the real you, then it's not a problem. You want to get in a girls pants? Be sexually aggressive, let her know through body language and kino that you want to be sexual with her. If she blows you out, oh well, there are plenty of other chicks out there.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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joe45 said:
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
No, you would actually rip it off. Talking about "what you would like to do" is for faggots, chicks and children.

Think of her as your personal playdough woman, push her and pull her to where you want.


Edit: sh!t I just remembered there are alot of retards here, try to use some common sense though, if she starts crying or screaming, probably best to reassess.
 

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i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
 

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Aragon034 said:
i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
hehe what are some things you would say that are ****y and funny and would involeve sexual stuff. heheh do you have any examples . i love to hear them and when would you use them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You gotta learn some refinement. Some girls who are very in touch with their sexuality will respond positive to blatant and vulgar sexual comments and/or bold moves if you say them with a blink in your eye you know. They may be less interested in the small detailed lunges and ripostes of quick sexual word flirting.

Some examples of sexually aggressive: Holding eye contact a few sec with the "I wanna **** you look", breeching her intimate zone from time to time (i.e getting close to her), getting kino in by touching arms, back and maybe even her hair, I used to push her a little when she made a comment about herself to tease her (lol maybe shouldn't try that now or she'd end up on a wall :p)

Sexual innuendo is also great. Makes them start thinking about sex. Imagine this, a girl holding a banana ;)
 
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