"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how would a guy be sexually aggresseive any examples of what to do

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The last post on nerds getting no action. i wondered . what do you mean by being sexually aggressive. how would you do this through body language and kino. what are some examples a guy would do on a date to a girl to show he was sexually aggressive with her.
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
what would you say or how do you be sexually aggressive with the girls you are with. -

Ingenuinity. Ingenuinity is a big reason why a lot of guys don't get laid. Even guys who DO get laid using methods and stuff, have this problem. To put it simply, they go up to a women and they're not being totally honest with her. This is a big problem with using lines and stuff. However, if the lines and stuff have been embedded into your REAL personality, the real you, then it's not a problem. You want to get in a girls pants? Be sexually aggressive, let her know through body language and kino that you want to be sexual with her. If she blows you out, oh well, there are plenty of other chicks out there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joe45 said:
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
No, you would actually rip it off. Talking about "what you would like to do" is for faggots, chicks and children.

Think of her as your personal playdough woman, push her and pull her to where you want.


Edit: sh!t I just remembered there are alot of retards here, try to use some common sense though, if she starts crying or screaming, probably best to reassess.
 

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i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
 

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Aragon034 said:
i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
hehe what are some things you would say that are ****y and funny and would involeve sexual stuff. heheh do you have any examples . i love to hear them and when would you use them
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You gotta learn some refinement. Some girls who are very in touch with their sexuality will respond positive to blatant and vulgar sexual comments and/or bold moves if you say them with a blink in your eye you know. They may be less interested in the small detailed lunges and ripostes of quick sexual word flirting.

Some examples of sexually aggressive: Holding eye contact a few sec with the "I wanna **** you look", breeching her intimate zone from time to time (i.e getting close to her), getting kino in by touching arms, back and maybe even her hair, I used to push her a little when she made a comment about herself to tease her (lol maybe shouldn't try that now or she'd end up on a wall :p)

Sexual innuendo is also great. Makes them start thinking about sex. Imagine this, a girl holding a banana ;)
 
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