"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how would a guy be sexually aggresseive any examples of what to do

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The last post on nerds getting no action. i wondered . what do you mean by being sexually aggressive. how would you do this through body language and kino. what are some examples a guy would do on a date to a girl to show he was sexually aggressive with her.
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
what would you say or how do you be sexually aggressive with the girls you are with. -

Ingenuinity. Ingenuinity is a big reason why a lot of guys don't get laid. Even guys who DO get laid using methods and stuff, have this problem. To put it simply, they go up to a women and they're not being totally honest with her. This is a big problem with using lines and stuff. However, if the lines and stuff have been embedded into your REAL personality, the real you, then it's not a problem. You want to get in a girls pants? Be sexually aggressive, let her know through body language and kino that you want to be sexual with her. If she blows you out, oh well, there are plenty of other chicks out there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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joe45 said:
what are some examples you would say to a girl or do to a girl on a date or a girl you liked.
is it like "umm you look good it that skirt -i would love to just rip it off and slap your butt and bang you hard till you ***- ilike that lol ":
No, you would actually rip it off. Talking about "what you would like to do" is for faggots, chicks and children.

Think of her as your personal playdough woman, push her and pull her to where you want.


Edit: sh!t I just remembered there are alot of retards here, try to use some common sense though, if she starts crying or screaming, probably best to reassess.
 

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i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
 

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Aragon034 said:
i think if you're attracted to a girl you're gaming, sexual aggression should be done naturally in just about any encounter. it's absolutely primal for me.

kino is a great way to show it, a handshake doesn't say much but a squeeze of her shoulders does a bit more. as it progresses, get bolder and more inventive. Hell, i've bitten girls out of sheer impulse.

with speech i find it a bit harder to be so smooth, though usually my C&F involves sexual stuff.

my biggest credo is that everything that i want to do should become natural for me to do, and hence i won't worry about it. sexual aggression definately falls into this.
hehe what are some things you would say that are ****y and funny and would involeve sexual stuff. heheh do you have any examples . i love to hear them and when would you use them
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You gotta learn some refinement. Some girls who are very in touch with their sexuality will respond positive to blatant and vulgar sexual comments and/or bold moves if you say them with a blink in your eye you know. They may be less interested in the small detailed lunges and ripostes of quick sexual word flirting.

Some examples of sexually aggressive: Holding eye contact a few sec with the "I wanna **** you look", breeching her intimate zone from time to time (i.e getting close to her), getting kino in by touching arms, back and maybe even her hair, I used to push her a little when she made a comment about herself to tease her (lol maybe shouldn't try that now or she'd end up on a wall :p)

Sexual innuendo is also great. Makes them start thinking about sex. Imagine this, a girl holding a banana ;)
 
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