"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How woudl u handle it if the best friend of the girl u r trying 2 get h8 u?

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Lost In the Seas

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there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
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The best way to combat the hating friend is to be clever. This girl is trying to make the girl you like think you're a bad guy. Every chance you get, say something nice about the girl who is dissing you, but only to the girl you like. Don't say anything bad about the friend. What the other girl is doing will backfire if you give it time and don't react to it. Do just the opposite of what this girl wants you to do. See, she is feeling threatened by you...that you're going to take her friend away. So she's talking trash because she thinks you're going to react by talking trash back to her. Then her friend would have to choose sides and miserable friend will win. Don't let her play that game with you. If she says something mean to your face...say something nice and smirk at her when the girl you like isn't watching. The miserable girl will eventually self destruct and the girl you like will get sick of her nastiness and you should be fine.
 
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diplomatic_lies

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Simple solution. Don't go out with girls from Hong Kong.
 
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Flyer

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is her friend hot?

get a wingman to take one for the team.
 
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the girl is dissing you 'cause she wants you. She is jealous and if she can't have you than neither can her friend...

Now what kinda friend is that..?

For the sake of the so-called friendship you will have to shagg them both, but at the same time so they don't feel singled out.

your welcome.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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