"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How woudl u handle it if the best friend of the girl u r trying 2 get h8 u?

Lost In the Seas

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there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
The best way to combat the hating friend is to be clever. This girl is trying to make the girl you like think you're a bad guy. Every chance you get, say something nice about the girl who is dissing you, but only to the girl you like. Don't say anything bad about the friend. What the other girl is doing will backfire if you give it time and don't react to it. Do just the opposite of what this girl wants you to do. See, she is feeling threatened by you...that you're going to take her friend away. So she's talking trash because she thinks you're going to react by talking trash back to her. Then her friend would have to choose sides and miserable friend will win. Don't let her play that game with you. If she says something mean to your face...say something nice and smirk at her when the girl you like isn't watching. The miserable girl will eventually self destruct and the girl you like will get sick of her nastiness and you should be fine.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Simple solution. Don't go out with girls from Hong Kong.
 

Flyer

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is her friend hot?

get a wingman to take one for the team.
 

zerocelcius

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the girl is dissing you 'cause she wants you. She is jealous and if she can't have you than neither can her friend...

Now what kinda friend is that..?

For the sake of the so-called friendship you will have to shagg them both, but at the same time so they don't feel singled out.

your welcome.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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