Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How woudl u handle it if the best friend of the girl u r trying 2 get h8 u?

Lost In the Seas

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there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
there's this girl i want, but her best friend just hate me, i hate her a lot too, she say bad things about me to the girl and always diss me and put me down when she's around, i want to diss her back but the girl probably don't like her best friend being dissed, she and i are just casual friends, what would u do in this case?

is there a line or two i can shut her mouth up for good when she's talking s***?
The best way to combat the hating friend is to be clever. This girl is trying to make the girl you like think you're a bad guy. Every chance you get, say something nice about the girl who is dissing you, but only to the girl you like. Don't say anything bad about the friend. What the other girl is doing will backfire if you give it time and don't react to it. Do just the opposite of what this girl wants you to do. See, she is feeling threatened by you...that you're going to take her friend away. So she's talking trash because she thinks you're going to react by talking trash back to her. Then her friend would have to choose sides and miserable friend will win. Don't let her play that game with you. If she says something mean to your face...say something nice and smirk at her when the girl you like isn't watching. The miserable girl will eventually self destruct and the girl you like will get sick of her nastiness and you should be fine.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Simple solution. Don't go out with girls from Hong Kong.
 

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is her friend hot?

get a wingman to take one for the team.
 

zerocelcius

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the girl is dissing you 'cause she wants you. She is jealous and if she can't have you than neither can her friend...

Now what kinda friend is that..?

For the sake of the so-called friendship you will have to shagg them both, but at the same time so they don't feel singled out.

your welcome.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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