"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How/What should I reply back to this girl??

sfeclipse

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Alright..here's the background. Met girl 3-4 weeks back. We went on our 1st date 2 wednesday's back. It went alright..we met up for drinks...however she doesn't drink no problems..we then went and shot some pool. date lasted abt 4-5 hrs..all in all a good date. She even txt msg'd me (txt msging is big in australia so don't give me **** for this) next day to tell me she had a good time and we should meet up again after exams.

well exams got over this week for me. She still has until next week. so i txt msg'd her on monday:

"Hi. How are your exams comin along? I'm sure you need a break from all that studying. Lets meet up for sushi saturday night :) "

Got a msg back from her on Tuesday:

"Hi, had an exam tonight, it was so hard, I can't do this wed, what about next? We could go for breakfast... something different? :) "

In all my dating experiences, never has a girl suggested breakfast.

I'm thinking of replying back with something like "how about dinner AND breakfast" ;)

What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MadeInTheUK

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deffinately mate...
that txt is begging for that reply...if she replies all shocked then just joke it off....but she may say yes!...winner
 

quest

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sfeclipse, i'm in australia too. and i don't know how big txting is worldwide, but i'd have assumed it would be just as common.
now i guess i'd get atleast 4 txt messages a day, sometimes 20 (mainly if i have a txt conversation with a couple of people, dont like doing this) but i know that before i met my girlfriend, i had given up on txt (because coming to this site i realised it was weak and unconfident) and i had begun calling girls, some girls mentioned how calling them was so much better and confident etc.
your 25, i think you should be calling, its much more personal.
 

sfeclipse

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i totally agree with you. i'm not a txt msg'ing kinda person myself. i never even knew how to when i was back in california! but girls here seem to like it and I have tried calling her but she has exams this week as well as next so she keeps her phone off. Txt msging is the only option I have.

So should I txt msg back something witty like I proposed before or should I just play along and say ok for breakfast? Never been on a breakfast date. Just sounds kinda weird...
 
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