"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How/What should I reply back to this girl??

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Alright..here's the background. Met girl 3-4 weeks back. We went on our 1st date 2 wednesday's back. It went alright..we met up for drinks...however she doesn't drink no problems..we then went and shot some pool. date lasted abt 4-5 hrs..all in all a good date. She even txt msg'd me (txt msging is big in australia so don't give me **** for this) next day to tell me she had a good time and we should meet up again after exams.

well exams got over this week for me. She still has until next week. so i txt msg'd her on monday:

"Hi. How are your exams comin along? I'm sure you need a break from all that studying. Lets meet up for sushi saturday night :) "

Got a msg back from her on Tuesday:

"Hi, had an exam tonight, it was so hard, I can't do this wed, what about next? We could go for breakfast... something different? :) "

In all my dating experiences, never has a girl suggested breakfast.

I'm thinking of replying back with something like "how about dinner AND breakfast" ;)

What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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deffinately mate...
that txt is begging for that reply...if she replies all shocked then just joke it off....but she may say yes!...winner
 
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sfeclipse, i'm in australia too. and i don't know how big txting is worldwide, but i'd have assumed it would be just as common.
now i guess i'd get atleast 4 txt messages a day, sometimes 20 (mainly if i have a txt conversation with a couple of people, dont like doing this) but i know that before i met my girlfriend, i had given up on txt (because coming to this site i realised it was weak and unconfident) and i had begun calling girls, some girls mentioned how calling them was so much better and confident etc.
your 25, i think you should be calling, its much more personal.
 
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i totally agree with you. i'm not a txt msg'ing kinda person myself. i never even knew how to when i was back in california! but girls here seem to like it and I have tried calling her but she has exams this week as well as next so she keeps her phone off. Txt msging is the only option I have.

So should I txt msg back something witty like I proposed before or should I just play along and say ok for breakfast? Never been on a breakfast date. Just sounds kinda weird...
 
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