"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How well do girls read on guys?

antidonjuan

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How sensitive are they in terms of guys? Do they ever join in a group and discuss about certain guys and analyse them, I heard them once.

Also it seems like the true, very pretty girls that are very hard to read off. I mean, what are they thinking? Some medium looking girls I talked to are so easy to read and you know their nature very well. But when I talk to these pretty women, they seem to be more mysterious
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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completely depends on the girl and how much she has matured and knows about dating.

In high school you will get a wide selection of attractive looking girls who have little experience and girls who know how to make boys beg for her attention.

Defenenlty the experienced girls can tell what your doing and how to play a mean game of hard to get. But the good thing about high school is there is still good looking girls who don't know what they are doing at all. They are easy pickings.

Its not that hard to pick out the ones who know what they are doing from the little girls at heart still.

That answer your question?
 

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lsu03 said:
no easy ones at my school unfortunately. haha
really? thats a bummer man.
Im a junior and id say 4 out of 5 attractive girls in my junior class know what they are doing. But if you go down one grade its about half and half. and freshmen girls are even worse. Very few of them know how to act around a guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would say harder. They just arnt as coroparative as normal girls. They are prone to flaking and dont keep conversation well. Unless you can make them confortable it will be a shakey ride.
 

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so if u wanna game a shy-very pretty girl, how do you go about it? it seems like they dont make the conversation so pleasant.
 

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antidonjuan said:
How sensitive are they in terms of guys? Do they ever join in a group and discuss about certain guys and analyse them, I heard them once.

Also it seems like the true, very pretty girls that are very hard to read off. I mean, what are they thinking? Some medium looking girls I talked to are so easy to read and you know their nature very well. But when I talk to these pretty women, they seem to be more mysterious
Are you ****ing serious?

Why do you think you are here? We are light years behind women on social intellect, we come here for the same reason talk to their friends.

Women having been talking about guys, social events, and the latest hot thing since they were 5 years old.

You bet your ass they talk about it, they're probably at least 10 years ahead of you already.
 
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