"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How well do girls read on guys?

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How sensitive are they in terms of guys? Do they ever join in a group and discuss about certain guys and analyse them, I heard them once.

Also it seems like the true, very pretty girls that are very hard to read off. I mean, what are they thinking? Some medium looking girls I talked to are so easy to read and you know their nature very well. But when I talk to these pretty women, they seem to be more mysterious
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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completely depends on the girl and how much she has matured and knows about dating.

In high school you will get a wide selection of attractive looking girls who have little experience and girls who know how to make boys beg for her attention.

Defenenlty the experienced girls can tell what your doing and how to play a mean game of hard to get. But the good thing about high school is there is still good looking girls who don't know what they are doing at all. They are easy pickings.

Its not that hard to pick out the ones who know what they are doing from the little girls at heart still.

That answer your question?
 

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lsu03 said:
no easy ones at my school unfortunately. haha
really? thats a bummer man.
Im a junior and id say 4 out of 5 attractive girls in my junior class know what they are doing. But if you go down one grade its about half and half. and freshmen girls are even worse. Very few of them know how to act around a guy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would say harder. They just arnt as coroparative as normal girls. They are prone to flaking and dont keep conversation well. Unless you can make them confortable it will be a shakey ride.
 

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so if u wanna game a shy-very pretty girl, how do you go about it? it seems like they dont make the conversation so pleasant.
 

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antidonjuan said:
How sensitive are they in terms of guys? Do they ever join in a group and discuss about certain guys and analyse them, I heard them once.

Also it seems like the true, very pretty girls that are very hard to read off. I mean, what are they thinking? Some medium looking girls I talked to are so easy to read and you know their nature very well. But when I talk to these pretty women, they seem to be more mysterious
Are you ****ing serious?

Why do you think you are here? We are light years behind women on social intellect, we come here for the same reason talk to their friends.

Women having been talking about guys, social events, and the latest hot thing since they were 5 years old.

You bet your ass they talk about it, they're probably at least 10 years ahead of you already.
 
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