"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How was your New Year Celebration?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hard core....

Started drinking at 4 PM...A buddy of mine came up with this really odd drink combination he dubbed "Strip and Get Naked." Don't ask why...Anyway, all it is is 3 beers, 10 oz Vodka and one can of those Lemonade concentrates. Sounds nasty, but it tastes just like a tart lemonade.

Four hours later (if that), between 8 people we went through somewhere between 6-7 "batches" of the mixtures and over a 30-pack of beer (not counting what was added to the mixture). The mixture consumed over a 1.75 of Vodka and almost a 24 pack. This was not good. Two of my buddies (remember, we're all in college so keep that in mind) were passed out, one was puking, the guy who's house we were at was basically unconcious and we hauled him to his bed. It was the perfect set-up for a "Kids, don't drink" advertisement.

Anyway, after that we headed to another friend's house and kept going. The two guys who were passed out had gotten their second wind and the guy who barfed went on a classic "Puke'N Rally." There was only about 20 people at this house, but it ended up quite fun. I don't have many details about what we did, but if you've been following what I've already said then you should understand why.
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
Hard core....

Started drinking at 4 PM...A buddy of mine came up with this really odd drink combination he dubbed "Strip and Get Naked." Don't ask why...Anyway, all it is is 3 beers, 10 oz Vodka and one can of those Lemonade concentrates. Sounds nasty, but it tastes just like a tart lemonade.

Four hours later (if that), between 8 people we went through somewhere between 6-7 "batches" of the mixtures and over a 30-pack of beer (not counting what was added to the mixture). The mixture consumed over a 1.75 of Vodka and almost a 24 pack. This was not good. Two of my buddies (remember, we're all in college so keep that in mind) were passed out, one was puking, the guy who's house we were at was basically unconcious and we hauled him to his bed. It was the perfect set-up for a "Kids, don't drink" advertisement.

Anyway, after that we headed to another friend's house and kept going. The two guys who were passed out had gotten their second wind and the guy who barfed went on a classic "Puke'N Rally." There was only about 20 people at this house, but it ended up quite fun. I don't have many details about what we did, but if you've been following what I've already said then you should understand why.

no offense, but sounds like a sausage fest.

I actually laughed out loud at the "Kids, don't drink" ad.

:D
 
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