"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How valid is a hot or not rating? Also putting pics on dating sites..thoughts?

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So I took a picture off my face to make it look good, showing my best features from a close in weird nagle.

Result:

125 votes...average ratign 9.9....and a bunch of HOTmirers whatever that means.

However, I am no way this good lookin gin real life. I admit I made the pic to my advantage. But still is this HOT or NOt rigged. I mean 9.9 this is some kind off fix?

I put in previous pics and I always got 8-9 average rating. But I look at other members and you see bald old dudes with 9.3 and stuff

So, overall i Guess this sit is total BS?

The reason I ask is I want to put pics on POF and OK cupid etc...but I thought Id get them rated 1st but I dont know if I can trust the HON ratings?

Therefore what If my pics are ugly then I dont want them on Okcupid and POF

Also I am embarssedif people I know see me on OKC and POf arent you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what you idiots talking about.

If you dont liek my threads dont even open then..problem solved.

You are trolls..wasting my forum space!!!
 

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SoSuaveDude

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly and content
 

Jaylan

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Dude I am new here and already have taken notice to your huge lack of confidence. I think Steve Urkel was better at this then you, and he got Laura at the end of the series too.
 
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confidence?

cluelessness...I am not unconfident. I just dotn know what to do, what to say?

I only like cute/hot girls to?

What am I meant to do...go up to hot girls and say hey your hot wanna meet up sometime.

PLUS--- I dont date, infact I dotn even speak with girls or care too..So

Am I meant to go up to hot girls and say want sex? Cuase thats about all I care for.

I really have no interest in wining, dining, dating etc...nor do I have interest in clubbing, pubbing being social etc...

In my mind I would just have girls coem to my house for sex...but that is unlikely?

So, confident or not I dont know what to say/do with girls apart from sex
 

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^Confident men know how to talk to and game women.

So yes you are not very confident.
 

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This a forum for helping each other attain skills with women. I remember asking a few foolish questions in the past myself. It's part of the learning curve.

He may not be confident. I wasn't at one point either. He's probably a young dude that needs to have more life experiences so he knows what works for him and what doesn't. I remember my hotornot experiments. It was a good tool for filtering out my best photos for when I had Facebook/MySpace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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