"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How valid is a hot or not rating? Also putting pics on dating sites..thoughts?

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So I took a picture off my face to make it look good, showing my best features from a close in weird nagle.

Result:

125 votes...average ratign 9.9....and a bunch of HOTmirers whatever that means.

However, I am no way this good lookin gin real life. I admit I made the pic to my advantage. But still is this HOT or NOt rigged. I mean 9.9 this is some kind off fix?

I put in previous pics and I always got 8-9 average rating. But I look at other members and you see bald old dudes with 9.3 and stuff

So, overall i Guess this sit is total BS?

The reason I ask is I want to put pics on POF and OK cupid etc...but I thought Id get them rated 1st but I dont know if I can trust the HON ratings?

Therefore what If my pics are ugly then I dont want them on Okcupid and POF

Also I am embarssedif people I know see me on OKC and POf arent you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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what you idiots talking about.

If you dont liek my threads dont even open then..problem solved.

You are trolls..wasting my forum space!!!
 

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly and content
 

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Dude I am new here and already have taken notice to your huge lack of confidence. I think Steve Urkel was better at this then you, and he got Laura at the end of the series too.
 
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confidence?

cluelessness...I am not unconfident. I just dotn know what to do, what to say?

I only like cute/hot girls to?

What am I meant to do...go up to hot girls and say hey your hot wanna meet up sometime.

PLUS--- I dont date, infact I dotn even speak with girls or care too..So

Am I meant to go up to hot girls and say want sex? Cuase thats about all I care for.

I really have no interest in wining, dining, dating etc...nor do I have interest in clubbing, pubbing being social etc...

In my mind I would just have girls coem to my house for sex...but that is unlikely?

So, confident or not I dont know what to say/do with girls apart from sex
 

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^Confident men know how to talk to and game women.

So yes you are not very confident.
 

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This a forum for helping each other attain skills with women. I remember asking a few foolish questions in the past myself. It's part of the learning curve.

He may not be confident. I wasn't at one point either. He's probably a young dude that needs to have more life experiences so he knows what works for him and what doesn't. I remember my hotornot experiments. It was a good tool for filtering out my best photos for when I had Facebook/MySpace.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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