"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How valid is a hot or not rating? Also putting pics on dating sites..thoughts?

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So I took a picture off my face to make it look good, showing my best features from a close in weird nagle.

Result:

125 votes...average ratign 9.9....and a bunch of HOTmirers whatever that means.

However, I am no way this good lookin gin real life. I admit I made the pic to my advantage. But still is this HOT or NOt rigged. I mean 9.9 this is some kind off fix?

I put in previous pics and I always got 8-9 average rating. But I look at other members and you see bald old dudes with 9.3 and stuff

So, overall i Guess this sit is total BS?

The reason I ask is I want to put pics on POF and OK cupid etc...but I thought Id get them rated 1st but I dont know if I can trust the HON ratings?

Therefore what If my pics are ugly then I dont want them on Okcupid and POF

Also I am embarssedif people I know see me on OKC and POf arent you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what you idiots talking about.

If you dont liek my threads dont even open then..problem solved.

You are trolls..wasting my forum space!!!
 

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoSuaveDude

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regardless of your looks, you clearly lack confidence... that's worse than being ugly and content
 

Jaylan

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Dude I am new here and already have taken notice to your huge lack of confidence. I think Steve Urkel was better at this then you, and he got Laura at the end of the series too.
 
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confidence?

cluelessness...I am not unconfident. I just dotn know what to do, what to say?

I only like cute/hot girls to?

What am I meant to do...go up to hot girls and say hey your hot wanna meet up sometime.

PLUS--- I dont date, infact I dotn even speak with girls or care too..So

Am I meant to go up to hot girls and say want sex? Cuase thats about all I care for.

I really have no interest in wining, dining, dating etc...nor do I have interest in clubbing, pubbing being social etc...

In my mind I would just have girls coem to my house for sex...but that is unlikely?

So, confident or not I dont know what to say/do with girls apart from sex
 

Jaylan

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^Confident men know how to talk to and game women.

So yes you are not very confident.
 

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This a forum for helping each other attain skills with women. I remember asking a few foolish questions in the past myself. It's part of the learning curve.

He may not be confident. I wasn't at one point either. He's probably a young dude that needs to have more life experiences so he knows what works for him and what doesn't. I remember my hotornot experiments. It was a good tool for filtering out my best photos for when I had Facebook/MySpace.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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