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And what are some good ways to be unpredictable? Like if a girl says hi to you and sometimes you're friendly and other times you're rude, is that a bit extreme?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How unpredictable is too unpredictable?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Theres no reason to be rude or unpredictable. Just don't be boring.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
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Thank you.slaog said:
I hadn't thought of it that way. I really didn't like the idea that I would have to be rude to a girl to keep her interested.Lol @ the other answer.
Mixed signals!2.0 said:
No EXTREME mixed signals like you did, but some stuff like saying: Hey that's totally unecceptable! Then you give her a kiss. Or Hah that's so sweet of you! Then you give her a spank.
That's the idea!"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.