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And what are some good ways to be unpredictable? Like if a girl says hi to you and sometimes you're friendly and other times you're rude, is that a bit extreme?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How unpredictable is too unpredictable?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Theres no reason to be rude or unpredictable. Just don't be boring.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
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Thank you.slaog said:
I hadn't thought of it that way. I really didn't like the idea that I would have to be rude to a girl to keep her interested.Lol @ the other answer.
Mixed signals!2.0 said:
No EXTREME mixed signals like you did, but some stuff like saying: Hey that's totally unecceptable! Then you give her a kiss. Or Hah that's so sweet of you! Then you give her a spank.
That's the idea!"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.