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And what are some good ways to be unpredictable? Like if a girl says hi to you and sometimes you're friendly and other times you're rude, is that a bit extreme?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How unpredictable is too unpredictable?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Theres no reason to be rude or unpredictable. Just don't be boring.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
You can be nice all the time as long as it's from a place or higher value. That means that you're nice because thats what you are. Don't confuse that with AFC nice which is basically being nice to somebody because you want something off them.
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Thank you.slaog said:
I hadn't thought of it that way. I really didn't like the idea that I would have to be rude to a girl to keep her interested.Lol @ the other answer.
Mixed signals!2.0 said:
No EXTREME mixed signals like you did, but some stuff like saying: Hey that's totally unecceptable! Then you give her a kiss. Or Hah that's so sweet of you! Then you give her a spank.
That's the idea!"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.