"I just moved here from Florida."

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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How to you handle a slap on your cheek.

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Hey guys,
So im out with three girls and they are all doing kindo on me. Suddenly one of the girls, in a jokish way gives me a slap on the cheek and started laughing. I grabbed her in a funny way (we were mostly just hugging). The point is, suddenly the two of them started giving me slaps on the cheek also laughing :O.

The thing Im wondering is, would you let a girl slap you on the cheek in a jokish way? Or would you see that as if they are going in into your boundaries?

Would you react and become serious? Or would you be calm and laugh it away?

I handle the situation quite calm saying, girls, girls, hands of the merchandise.. and thereafter they started to touch more. I grabbed one of the girls, and said give me your arms and used her arms to block all slaps.:cool:

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Based on what you said, it sounds like a positive thing. However, with any such "invasion of personal bubble moments" subtle differences can make it or break it.
Seems to me like they were just Kino-ing you back in a manner that was socially acceptable in a group.

Your reaction was perfect. Couldn't imagine it being better. Sounds fun to be honest.
 
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I'd say you handled it pretty well, there's no reason to get serious over a playful slap unless they were purposely demeaning you. I usually playfully slap them in the ass when they get touchy with me
 
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It can be also that they were testing if he is a joyfull person able to have fun in many ways or one of those who get upset for nothing,and i know many that would have acted different than him.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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"Why you!...." <spin her around and spank her matching her intent>
 
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if it was a serious slap i'd just say," hey! what was that for?"
but playful you handled it well
 
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all kinds of options to joke around with

slap her ass back

tell her to behave herself and adult supervision is what she needs
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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I'd go 'is that supposed to hurt' in a joking manner, with a grin on my face. They were obviously joking around.

It's interesting that men cannot get away with a slap on the face, but spanking is definitely on the top 5 things to do in response to this sort of joke.
 
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Happened to me the other night actually. I laughed and said something like, oh I like it.

It was a "love slap", barely a caress.

(Later that night, I came in her mouth.)
 
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