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How to you handle a slap on your cheek.

Masked_angel

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Hey guys,
So im out with three girls and they are all doing kindo on me. Suddenly one of the girls, in a jokish way gives me a slap on the cheek and started laughing. I grabbed her in a funny way (we were mostly just hugging). The point is, suddenly the two of them started giving me slaps on the cheek also laughing :O.

The thing Im wondering is, would you let a girl slap you on the cheek in a jokish way? Or would you see that as if they are going in into your boundaries?

Would you react and become serious? Or would you be calm and laugh it away?

I handle the situation quite calm saying, girls, girls, hands of the merchandise.. and thereafter they started to touch more. I grabbed one of the girls, and said give me your arms and used her arms to block all slaps.:cool:

Best regards
Masked_angel
 

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prairiedog24

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Based on what you said, it sounds like a positive thing. However, with any such "invasion of personal bubble moments" subtle differences can make it or break it.
Seems to me like they were just Kino-ing you back in a manner that was socially acceptable in a group.

Your reaction was perfect. Couldn't imagine it being better. Sounds fun to be honest.
 

WhitePimp

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I'd say you handled it pretty well, there's no reason to get serious over a playful slap unless they were purposely demeaning you. I usually playfully slap them in the ass when they get touchy with me
 

Son of anarchy

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It can be also that they were testing if he is a joyfull person able to have fun in many ways or one of those who get upset for nothing,and i know many that would have acted different than him.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nutz

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"Why you!...." <spin her around and spank her matching her intent>
 

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if it was a serious slap i'd just say," hey! what was that for?"
but playful you handled it well
 

Soprano

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all kinds of options to joke around with

slap her ass back

tell her to behave herself and adult supervision is what she needs
 

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Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PeeGee

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I'd go 'is that supposed to hurt' in a joking manner, with a grin on my face. They were obviously joking around.

It's interesting that men cannot get away with a slap on the face, but spanking is definitely on the top 5 things to do in response to this sort of joke.
 

The_Reaper

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Happened to me the other night actually. I laughed and said something like, oh I like it.

It was a "love slap", barely a caress.

(Later that night, I came in her mouth.)
 
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