"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to you handle a slap on your cheek.

Masked_angel

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Hey guys,
So im out with three girls and they are all doing kindo on me. Suddenly one of the girls, in a jokish way gives me a slap on the cheek and started laughing. I grabbed her in a funny way (we were mostly just hugging). The point is, suddenly the two of them started giving me slaps on the cheek also laughing :O.

The thing Im wondering is, would you let a girl slap you on the cheek in a jokish way? Or would you see that as if they are going in into your boundaries?

Would you react and become serious? Or would you be calm and laugh it away?

I handle the situation quite calm saying, girls, girls, hands of the merchandise.. and thereafter they started to touch more. I grabbed one of the girls, and said give me your arms and used her arms to block all slaps.:cool:

Best regards
Masked_angel
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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prairiedog24

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Based on what you said, it sounds like a positive thing. However, with any such "invasion of personal bubble moments" subtle differences can make it or break it.
Seems to me like they were just Kino-ing you back in a manner that was socially acceptable in a group.

Your reaction was perfect. Couldn't imagine it being better. Sounds fun to be honest.
 

WhitePimp

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I'd say you handled it pretty well, there's no reason to get serious over a playful slap unless they were purposely demeaning you. I usually playfully slap them in the ass when they get touchy with me
 

Son of anarchy

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It can be also that they were testing if he is a joyfull person able to have fun in many ways or one of those who get upset for nothing,and i know many that would have acted different than him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nutz

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"Why you!...." <spin her around and spank her matching her intent>
 

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if it was a serious slap i'd just say," hey! what was that for?"
but playful you handled it well
 

Soprano

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all kinds of options to joke around with

slap her ass back

tell her to behave herself and adult supervision is what she needs
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PeeGee

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I'd go 'is that supposed to hurt' in a joking manner, with a grin on my face. They were obviously joking around.

It's interesting that men cannot get away with a slap on the face, but spanking is definitely on the top 5 things to do in response to this sort of joke.
 

The_Reaper

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Happened to me the other night actually. I laughed and said something like, oh I like it.

It was a "love slap", barely a caress.

(Later that night, I came in her mouth.)
 
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