"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to Win Friends and Influence People

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I love anything written by Napolean Hill.

"Think and Grow Rich" is a goldmine!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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comic_relief said:
On top of that, do you really want to piss off the girlfriend?

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Girlfriend is not the same as a million dollar deal. If this gf goes away, I can get another one. But if this business goes away, can I get another million dollar deal that easily?
 

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djtdot said:
Girlfriend is not the same as a million dollar deal. If this gf goes away, I can get another one. But if this business goes away, can I get another million dollar deal that easily?
very true, but it is just another thing that will help make your life go easier and maybe I should have said, "Wife." She can take half your sh!t too if she wants to leave.

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Well I will make sure I will get a wife who appreciates me not my money :p. There still are quality chiks out there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Every chick is a gold digger*, it just matters to what degree.

* = everybody loves money but just to a certain degree.

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Great book imo...one of the best lessons out of it..people absolutely hate criticism... absolutely hate it..especially women..

the line from the movie..."

just take away reason and accountablitly from a man and you have women."
 
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