"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to Win Friends and Influence People

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I love anything written by Napolean Hill.

"Think and Grow Rich" is a goldmine!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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comic_relief said:
On top of that, do you really want to piss off the girlfriend?

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Girlfriend is not the same as a million dollar deal. If this gf goes away, I can get another one. But if this business goes away, can I get another million dollar deal that easily?
 

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djtdot said:
Girlfriend is not the same as a million dollar deal. If this gf goes away, I can get another one. But if this business goes away, can I get another million dollar deal that easily?
very true, but it is just another thing that will help make your life go easier and maybe I should have said, "Wife." She can take half your sh!t too if she wants to leave.

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Well I will make sure I will get a wife who appreciates me not my money :p. There still are quality chiks out there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Every chick is a gold digger*, it just matters to what degree.

* = everybody loves money but just to a certain degree.

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Great book imo...one of the best lessons out of it..people absolutely hate criticism... absolutely hate it..especially women..

the line from the movie..."

just take away reason and accountablitly from a man and you have women."
 
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