D!ck Ramsey
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 22, 2004
- Messages
- 158
- Reaction score
- 3
I love anything written by Napolean Hill.
"Think and Grow Rich" is a goldmine!
"Think and Grow Rich" is a goldmine!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief said:On top of that, do you really want to piss off the girlfriend?
comic_relief
very true, but it is just another thing that will help make your life go easier and maybe I should have said, "Wife." She can take half your sh!t too if she wants to leave.djtdot said:Girlfriend is not the same as a million dollar deal. If this gf goes away, I can get another one. But if this business goes away, can I get another million dollar deal that easily?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.