"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to use a PIVOT?

Impact

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Ok, I've been LJBF not just once lately, and I still think I can get those girls if I play my cards right. The next step would be going out with them (just as friends) and having them help me get other girls (using them as pivots). This way they might get jelous, and if I throw some KINO and C&F in, I think I can get them to be sexually interested in me.
So what I don't know is how do I actually use a girl to get other girls! Any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AudiTy

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One way is just open sets as normal but having the girl on your arm will do a host of beneficial things psychologically. First there's evident pre-selection, also the target won't initially see you as a threat, and neither will the guys in the set.

When it comes to time to extract the target, you can merge your pivot into the set and if your pivot wants to try and set her up with one of the guys by suggesting they look good together before you extract. Find out who your pivot wants to target before you approach.

You: Ya'know you 2 look good together, (to pivots target) can you look after *pivots name* while I talk to your friend over on the couch?

Just an idea of course, come up with your own ways to integrate your pivot into the set (if she agrees).

-AudiTy =o
 

Tomatoes

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Impact said:
Ok, I've been LJBF not just once lately, and I still think I can get those girls if I play my cards right. The next step would be going out with them (just as friends) and having them help me get other girls (using them as pivots). This way they might get jelous, and if I throw some KINO and C&F in, I think I can get them to be sexually interested in me.
So what I don't know is how do I actually use a girl to get other girls! Any ideas?

The one problem is that if you use them as a PIVOT you may just embed them deeping into your friendzone.



Sarge On!
 

Desdinova

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I never "went out" with my female friends to pick up other women. What I would do is go to a bar, make LOTS of female "friends", and then pick the one(s) that I wanted to date. If a woman is interested in you, she'll keep an eye on you and who you interact with. Getting kissed by women is another fantastic way to make other women attracted to you. In a sense, I made ALL women in the bar "pivots" (more commonly known on sosuave as social proof) and used it to my advantage.

Another way this can work is if a date isn't going well, take your date to a place where you're well known and the social proof itself will increase her IL.
 
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