“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to use a PIVOT?

Impact

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Ok, I've been LJBF not just once lately, and I still think I can get those girls if I play my cards right. The next step would be going out with them (just as friends) and having them help me get other girls (using them as pivots). This way they might get jelous, and if I throw some KINO and C&F in, I think I can get them to be sexually interested in me.
So what I don't know is how do I actually use a girl to get other girls! Any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One way is just open sets as normal but having the girl on your arm will do a host of beneficial things psychologically. First there's evident pre-selection, also the target won't initially see you as a threat, and neither will the guys in the set.

When it comes to time to extract the target, you can merge your pivot into the set and if your pivot wants to try and set her up with one of the guys by suggesting they look good together before you extract. Find out who your pivot wants to target before you approach.

You: Ya'know you 2 look good together, (to pivots target) can you look after *pivots name* while I talk to your friend over on the couch?

Just an idea of course, come up with your own ways to integrate your pivot into the set (if she agrees).

-AudiTy =o
 

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Impact said:
Ok, I've been LJBF not just once lately, and I still think I can get those girls if I play my cards right. The next step would be going out with them (just as friends) and having them help me get other girls (using them as pivots). This way they might get jelous, and if I throw some KINO and C&F in, I think I can get them to be sexually interested in me.
So what I don't know is how do I actually use a girl to get other girls! Any ideas?

The one problem is that if you use them as a PIVOT you may just embed them deeping into your friendzone.



Sarge On!
 

Desdinova

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I never "went out" with my female friends to pick up other women. What I would do is go to a bar, make LOTS of female "friends", and then pick the one(s) that I wanted to date. If a woman is interested in you, she'll keep an eye on you and who you interact with. Getting kissed by women is another fantastic way to make other women attracted to you. In a sense, I made ALL women in the bar "pivots" (more commonly known on sosuave as social proof) and used it to my advantage.

Another way this can work is if a date isn't going well, take your date to a place where you're well known and the social proof itself will increase her IL.
 
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