You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This...bigneil said:This is a false assumption. Women (after they are dumped) will say the guy treated them like trash, but only in past tense. They don't seek guys who treat them like trash in real time. Any time I tried to be an as-shole I succeeded, and not in a good way.
The understanding is wrong.Thechamp said:How to treat women like trash be honest the hottest women Go with men that treat them like trash , the qestion is how !!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Alpha is a relative term, and Alpha's never directly call another person a Beta. That is implied by his presence in the room (there can be no Internet Alpha per se). Indeed, only a Beta intentionally seeks to mistreat women (his pain stems from his failures).JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.
bigneil said:Good points Stevo and RangerMike.
Welcome to the red zone Kevin.
Alpha is a relative term, and Alpha's never directly call another person a Beta. That is implied by his presence in the room (there can be no Internet Alpha per se). Indeed, only a Beta intentionally seeks to mistreat women (his pain stems from his failures).
Spitefulness = weakness.
A true Alpha has so many women throwing themselves at him that he doesn't have time to be mean, he just finds someone else to treat right. An alpha is overflowing with generosity because the world rewards him for it. That said, when a woman mistreats him, he puts her in her place (often the trash barrel as he discards her), but normally he chooses to ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior.
Low quality women like to be treated like trash. Fake alphas who act like d1cks to everyone are really betas.JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So a Marine Drill Sergent is a "beta"? There are some roles and positions an Alpha will find himself in, where he is not very giving, not generous and issuing orders and forcing compliance.Peña said:Low quality women like to be treated like trash. Fake alphas who act like d1cks to everyone are really betas.
A sergent is absolutely Beta. He reports to staff sergeant, who reports to first sergent, who reports to sergent major, who reports to the General, who reports to the President, who reports to the Central bank, who reports to the shareholders, who report to the Board of Directors, who report to the Secret Government, who report to Satan.DaddyLongShanks said:So a Marine Drill Sergent is a "beta"? There are some roles and positions an Alpha will find himself in, where he is not very giving, not generous and issuing orders and forcing compliance.
This. If you are an alpha man, you can get away with anything with a woman. You can be a murdering psychopath and she will still kiss the ground you walk on.JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.
It is easy to shout orders to others and make them do things when you are above them in ranking. Anybody can do that. Your job does not make you an alpha or a beta. It is how you are all around is what makes you an alpha or a beta. That drill sergeant could act like a beta around women when he is not giving orders. He could act like a beta to his superior officers who gives him orders. His beta behavior away from his job does not make him an alpha.DaddyLongShanks said:So a Marine Drill Sergent is a "beta"? There are some roles and positions an Alpha will find himself in, where he is not very giving, not generous and issuing orders and forcing compliance.
You could treat a woman indifferently as an alpha male and it would still work.JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thanks for the tip. There are some folks like me who believe by pulling back or going NC on an uninterested rude chick, they could refresh their image and change the perception of the chick.nismo-4 said:[...], you won't be seen as alpha. You'll be seen as useless because she isn't sexually interested.
The view can be changed, but not worth it while your trying to get something out of them. The fastest way to change their view is leave them alone and go get some other female(s). They will perceive you differently once they know you do have an abundance.Suspens said:By throwing trash at them.
Thanks for the tip. There are some folks like me who believe by pulling back or going NC on an uninterested rude chick, they could refresh their image and change the perception of the chick.
But experienced chicks will categorize you quickly and it is too hard/not worth it to change their view.
Leaving them would just make them happy that you finally got the hint and gave up.DaddyLongShanks said:The fastest way to change their view is leave them alone and go get some other female(s). They will perceive you differently once they know you do have an abundance.
If this is true then you should be happy. Most women will come back sniffing around after you moved on and have success in your life.Suspens said:Leaving them would just make them happy that you finally got the hint and gave up.
So too often, guys end up rewarding bad behavior then go and complain about that exact behavior he had just rewarded. Guys need to take ownership and see that they are ultimately the one in control - not her. It's not about treating them like trash, it's about holding them to certain expectations. If they don't comply with your standard, then treat them as their behavior warrants, or just back away.bigneil said:Good points Stevo and RangerMike.
Welcome to the red zone Kevin.
Alpha is a relative term, and Alpha's never directly call another person a Beta. That is implied by his presence in the room (there can be no Internet Alpha per se). Indeed, only a Beta intentionally seeks to mistreat women (his pain stems from his failures).
Spitefulness = weakness.
A true Alpha has so many women throwing themselves at him that he doesn't have time to be mean, he just finds someone else to treat right. An alpha is overflowing with generosity because the world rewards him for it. That said, when a woman mistreats him, he puts her in her place (often the trash barrel as he discards her), but normally he chooses to ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.