"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to throw of ugly girls?

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Got a ugly girl in my class, happens that she is in the same project group, group of 5 so its not that bad.

The worst thing is that she laughs at everything I say and she really freaks me out.

Indeed its not DJ like to be freaked out by a girl.. hahaa :(

But I am so what should I do?

The difference between seduction and sexual harressment is indeed attraction! ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What should you do?

The question is what SHOULDNT you do.

You shouldnt flirt with her, you shouldnt be ****y an funny with her, you shouldnt kino her and you shouldnt hold eye contact with her.
 
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I did none of that.
 
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Originally posted by Julian
What should you do?

The question is what SHOULDNT you do.

You shouldnt flirt with her, you shouldnt be ****y an funny with her, you shouldnt kino her and you shouldnt hold eye contact with her.
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But arent you suppose to treat all Women the same? None of em "special"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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But arent you suppose to treat all Women the same? None of em "special"?
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It depends. Now, I don't want to disagree with that but I have to say I find it really difficult to treat them all the same. I mean it is virtually imposible to act attracted to a girl that is butt ugly.

I have found that when I am genuinely attracted to a girl seduction becomes easier. It is easier to flirt, kino,etc... The hard part is playing hard to get.

Anyways. What "treating all Women the same" actually means is not to give any special privileges to a woman at first. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't act at least a little bit intereseted in some women, or totally uniterested in other women.
 
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Get rid of an ugly girl the same way you'd get rid of a beautiful girl:
NO!
 
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