"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to throw of ugly girls?

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Got a ugly girl in my class, happens that she is in the same project group, group of 5 so its not that bad.

The worst thing is that she laughs at everything I say and she really freaks me out.

Indeed its not DJ like to be freaked out by a girl.. hahaa :(

But I am so what should I do?

The difference between seduction and sexual harressment is indeed attraction! ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What should you do?

The question is what SHOULDNT you do.

You shouldnt flirt with her, you shouldnt be ****y an funny with her, you shouldnt kino her and you shouldnt hold eye contact with her.
 
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I did none of that.
 
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Originally posted by Julian
What should you do?

The question is what SHOULDNT you do.

You shouldnt flirt with her, you shouldnt be ****y an funny with her, you shouldnt kino her and you shouldnt hold eye contact with her.
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But arent you suppose to treat all Women the same? None of em "special"?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But arent you suppose to treat all Women the same? None of em "special"?
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It depends. Now, I don't want to disagree with that but I have to say I find it really difficult to treat them all the same. I mean it is virtually imposible to act attracted to a girl that is butt ugly.

I have found that when I am genuinely attracted to a girl seduction becomes easier. It is easier to flirt, kino,etc... The hard part is playing hard to get.

Anyways. What "treating all Women the same" actually means is not to give any special privileges to a woman at first. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't act at least a little bit intereseted in some women, or totally uniterested in other women.
 
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Get rid of an ugly girl the same way you'd get rid of a beautiful girl:
NO!
 
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