"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to telll if a cashier likes you?

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Hi,

I'm just wondering how you can tell if a cashier likes you?

I'm finding it extremely difficult, because I keep on thinking "it must be part of her job."

There's this cashier at a store in my University that is always smiling at me, when she hands me my change she makes some hand contact, and whenever I look up we hold eye contact for a few moments.

That's it... are those good signs? If they are, how should I proceed? Like I said, it could just be her job... but service people aren't usually that enjoyable around here anyways.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AAAgent

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a girl will not like you if the only interaction you have with her is giving her money. (haha sounded weird)

If she is holding eye contact she may be interested. try talking to her.

small talk. how long you been here for...blah blah, how do you like it...blah blah.

Well my name is Overjoy, it was nice to meet you (pause and wait for her to say her name).

It was nice to meet you HB. have a great day.

Walk away and show up next time and ask her out. or you could ask her out on the spot as well.
 

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The PUAs and dating gurus get this question a thousand times a month "How do I know if a girl is interested in me?"

The whole point of teaching Pickup is to avoid this question. Here's the answer: IT DOESN'T FRIKKING MATTER if she's interested!
YOUR JOB is to run some game on her, and MAKE her be interested.
 

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bluenorther said:
The PUAs and dating gurus get this question a thousand times a month "How do I know if a girl is interested in me?"

The whole point of teaching Pickup is to avoid this question. Here's the answer: IT DOESN'T FRIKKING MATTER if she's interested!
YOUR JOB is to run some game on her, and MAKE her be interested.
Yep. You gotta go out with the intent to build her interest in you, and be prepared for the let down if she says no.

Women are weird creatures. You can't base your game around reading their signals.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hand her two pennies after she gives you your money back and say: "Keep the change you filthy animal". If she laughs. Talk to her. If not. Walk away smiling.
 

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Open your mouth and talk to her?

There is a beautiful Bangladeshi girl who works at the gas station near my job, her face lights up when I come in. We've had several conversations and I know she likes me, but....she's muslim and her family would not approve, and by not approve I mean probably honor kill us both. She said that she isn't even suppose to talk to the men who come in the store and only talks to me when her uncle isn't around. Hows that for knowing if a chic likes you? She basically risks everything to hold conversations with me.

So open your mouth and talk.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Hand her two pennies after she gives you your money back and say: "Keep the change you filthy animal". If she laughs. Talk to her. If not. Walk away smiling.
Boy you watch too much home alone! But there's no definitive way to tell if a cashier likes you. Most are hired guns and are good at being attention wh0res. Actually, the best way to tell is to read her mind. If you can't do that, then you'll just have to flirt and run game and hope she reciprocates well.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Hand her two pennies after she gives you your money back and say: "Keep the change you filthy animal". If she laughs. Talk to her. If not. Walk away smiling.
If she's never seen Home Alone 2 then she may not get it and to answers the OP's question: Who gives a **** if she doesnt "like you"? Just go for it and if you get rejected oh well, shes probably not that hot anyway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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