"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to tell if you're official

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How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RiceandChicken said:
How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.
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Is this a troll post? Anyway have you banged yet? Im guessing no. Never ask to be exclusive, never ever. Hang out with her, bang her, have fun with her and everything will fall into place. Why do you need to know if your official? If you are SHE will bring it up, you dont need to do anything.
 
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Alright. Erm, sex eh? We're kinda young but ok then. I'll sit back and let things happen as you guys suggested. Kinda new at all this, so sorry I y'all got ignored by this question and thought I was trolling. I'll never be a gspspields.
 
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RiceandChicken said:
How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.
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Haha 15? Err, write her a note and tell her to check Yes if she wants to be your boyfriend and No if she does not. LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RiceandChicken said:
Lol you got jokes man. Thats so beta it's unreal.
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Well since you like my sense of humour I'll tell you the answer to your question. You don't do anything but stay attractive and keep things light and fun. She'll let you know when she wants to be your girlfriend. You want her to come to you. It's that simple.
 
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