"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to tell if you're official

RiceandChicken

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How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JohnChops

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RiceandChicken said:
How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.

Is this a troll post? Anyway have you banged yet? Im guessing no. Never ask to be exclusive, never ever. Hang out with her, bang her, have fun with her and everything will fall into place. Why do you need to know if your official? If you are SHE will bring it up, you dont need to do anything.
 

RiceandChicken

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Alright. Erm, sex eh? We're kinda young but ok then. I'll sit back and let things happen as you guys suggested. Kinda new at all this, so sorry I y'all got ignored by this question and thought I was trolling. I'll never be a gspspields.
 

Renegade357

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RiceandChicken said:
How can you tell if you and a girl are bf gf? I don't wanna flat out ask her if we are cause Thats beta. I want to make sure the signs I'm seeing are good. So far we've:
1; hugged, a lot.
2: hands around each other.
3:we have good chemistry.
4:today she said while leaving: "bye, miss you".

This is kinda urgent, would like some answers soon. Thanks guys. Btw we're both 15. Could have posted this in high school forum but it'd take a while to get an answer. Correct me if I'm wrong. Thanks again.
Haha 15? Err, write her a note and tell her to check Yes if she wants to be your boyfriend and No if she does not. LOL
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Renegade357

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RiceandChicken said:
Lol you got jokes man. Thats so beta it's unreal.
Well since you like my sense of humour I'll tell you the answer to your question. You don't do anything but stay attractive and keep things light and fun. She'll let you know when she wants to be your girlfriend. You want her to come to you. It's that simple.
 
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