Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to tell if you're a hardgainer: articles and thoughts...

Fuglydude

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I'm pretty sure I'm an ecto-mesomorph. (5'8"-170) I'm naturally pretty skinny and have a fast metabolism that makes it relatively hard to put on weight. However I think I have decent speed and explosive power output compared to your average guy: I powerclean 130% of my bodyweight, deadlift over 250% and squat close to 200% for my 1RMs.

I dont' think I'm a true "hardgainer"...as I have put on close to 50 lbs bodyweight since I started training (keep in mind I've been doing this for almost a decade) and also dropped bodyfat. I've been as heavy as 190, but my bodyfat was probably sitting in the 17% range at that weight. Gaining weight and still staying lean has always been a challenge for me.

Recently I ran into some articles while trying to figure out whether I am a true hardgainer or not. These articles take into consideration body measurements such as wrist/ankle circumference and ht/wt, etc...

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Tell-If-You-Are-Really-A-Hard-Gainer&id=706754

These articles discuss the hardgainer plateau and max muscle potential for drug-free individuals.

http://www.weightrainer.net/plateau.html
http://www.weightrainer.net/bodypred.html

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm a hardgainer myself. Thanks, that was really interesting and helpful. :up:
 

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v interesting. looks like i'm a hardgainer. who knew...
 

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Unfortunatley, all those apply to me :down:
 

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Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
7% is nearly bodybuilder competition bodyfat level, try 10%.
 

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right they have it at 10% but right now I am currently at 7%.
 
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