"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to tell if you're a hardgainer: articles and thoughts...

Fuglydude

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I'm pretty sure I'm an ecto-mesomorph. (5'8"-170) I'm naturally pretty skinny and have a fast metabolism that makes it relatively hard to put on weight. However I think I have decent speed and explosive power output compared to your average guy: I powerclean 130% of my bodyweight, deadlift over 250% and squat close to 200% for my 1RMs.

I dont' think I'm a true "hardgainer"...as I have put on close to 50 lbs bodyweight since I started training (keep in mind I've been doing this for almost a decade) and also dropped bodyfat. I've been as heavy as 190, but my bodyfat was probably sitting in the 17% range at that weight. Gaining weight and still staying lean has always been a challenge for me.

Recently I ran into some articles while trying to figure out whether I am a true hardgainer or not. These articles take into consideration body measurements such as wrist/ankle circumference and ht/wt, etc...

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Tell-If-You-Are-Really-A-Hard-Gainer&id=706754

These articles discuss the hardgainer plateau and max muscle potential for drug-free individuals.

http://www.weightrainer.net/plateau.html
http://www.weightrainer.net/bodypred.html

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm a hardgainer myself. Thanks, that was really interesting and helpful. :up:
 

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v interesting. looks like i'm a hardgainer. who knew...
 

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Unfortunatley, all those apply to me :down:
 

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Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
7% is nearly bodybuilder competition bodyfat level, try 10%.
 

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right they have it at 10% but right now I am currently at 7%.
 
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