"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to tell if you're a hardgainer: articles and thoughts...

Fuglydude

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I'm pretty sure I'm an ecto-mesomorph. (5'8"-170) I'm naturally pretty skinny and have a fast metabolism that makes it relatively hard to put on weight. However I think I have decent speed and explosive power output compared to your average guy: I powerclean 130% of my bodyweight, deadlift over 250% and squat close to 200% for my 1RMs.

I dont' think I'm a true "hardgainer"...as I have put on close to 50 lbs bodyweight since I started training (keep in mind I've been doing this for almost a decade) and also dropped bodyfat. I've been as heavy as 190, but my bodyfat was probably sitting in the 17% range at that weight. Gaining weight and still staying lean has always been a challenge for me.

Recently I ran into some articles while trying to figure out whether I am a true hardgainer or not. These articles take into consideration body measurements such as wrist/ankle circumference and ht/wt, etc...

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Tell-If-You-Are-Really-A-Hard-Gainer&id=706754

These articles discuss the hardgainer plateau and max muscle potential for drug-free individuals.

http://www.weightrainer.net/plateau.html
http://www.weightrainer.net/bodypred.html

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ripper

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I'm a hardgainer myself. Thanks, that was really interesting and helpful. :up:
 

mintxx

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v interesting. looks like i'm a hardgainer. who knew...
 

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Unfortunatley, all those apply to me :down:
 

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Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Drum&Bass said:
Hey that calculator is pretty accurate, it says my genetic potential is 183 at 7% bodyfat.

seems right to me.

The plateau article says my championship weight should be around 193 with 10% bf
7% is nearly bodybuilder competition bodyfat level, try 10%.
 

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right they have it at 10% but right now I am currently at 7%.
 
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