"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to tell if your wife/girlfriend is cheating you
- Thread starter good_man
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What can you guys comment about that ?
good_man said:3 years ago, she used to repeat the name of her boss too often when we were together. Then one day I saw his name written by her inside her underpants. When I asked her, she told me it was just I kind of whitch so he could be a better boss to her in the job and that she had never had sexual relation with him.
What can you guys comment about that ?
I dont like the sound of this at all tbh, sorry man but i dont think anyone would be happy with that.
Thing is ask yourself these questions:
Why would she write about your boss name in her knickers?
The answer she 'wants him to be a better boss'? wtf answer is that it means nothing! thats not an answer its a cop out, you need todrill it more.
Ask her again!
Ever heard the saying, i want him to get in my knickers?
I know your thinking the same thing.
I would calm down relax and confront her again.
Say something like, i want to talk to you about your boss, i want you to be honest with me and dont lie, is there anything going on, when she says no, bring up the pants again, ask her why she wrote that, when she says for him to be a better boss, ask her to explain what she means cos you cant understan the connection between his name in her pants.
The important thing is to try to be cool, relaxed and not freak out, try to be cool calm and judgemental, your emotions can screw this up, so try to put them on the back burner.
Think:
'hey some-thing is not right here, its not going to upset me, i can handle anything she says and picture the worst case and get it out of your system away from her, then when she comes back to false stuff or skits around the subject your will be more prepared mentally and be able to approcah it with a more critical eye.
It does not mean she is screwing him, but it is very dodgy ground, this is not normal behaviour, you need to drill her and find out, but not get angry ok.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 7, 2006
- Messages
- 507
- Reaction score
- 1
trajhenkhet02
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 10, 2006
- Messages
- 78
- Reaction score
- 2
- Age
- 48
Open your eyes! You literally SAW it. Don't even TRY to tell us you believed that "whitch" bullshyt...good_man said:Then one day I saw his name written by her inside her underpants.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
you're gonna find out sooner or later, and you're gonna be hurt.
move on. if you feel she cheated on you, than most likely she has. next her. sorry.