"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to tell if your wife/girlfriend is cheating you
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What can you guys comment about that ?
good_man said:3 years ago, she used to repeat the name of her boss too often when we were together. Then one day I saw his name written by her inside her underpants. When I asked her, she told me it was just I kind of whitch so he could be a better boss to her in the job and that she had never had sexual relation with him.
What can you guys comment about that ?
I dont like the sound of this at all tbh, sorry man but i dont think anyone would be happy with that.
Thing is ask yourself these questions:
Why would she write about your boss name in her knickers?
The answer she 'wants him to be a better boss'? wtf answer is that it means nothing! thats not an answer its a cop out, you need todrill it more.
Ask her again!
Ever heard the saying, i want him to get in my knickers?
I know your thinking the same thing.
I would calm down relax and confront her again.
Say something like, i want to talk to you about your boss, i want you to be honest with me and dont lie, is there anything going on, when she says no, bring up the pants again, ask her why she wrote that, when she says for him to be a better boss, ask her to explain what she means cos you cant understan the connection between his name in her pants.
The important thing is to try to be cool, relaxed and not freak out, try to be cool calm and judgemental, your emotions can screw this up, so try to put them on the back burner.
Think:
'hey some-thing is not right here, its not going to upset me, i can handle anything she says and picture the worst case and get it out of your system away from her, then when she comes back to false stuff or skits around the subject your will be more prepared mentally and be able to approcah it with a more critical eye.
It does not mean she is screwing him, but it is very dodgy ground, this is not normal behaviour, you need to drill her and find out, but not get angry ok.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Open your eyes! You literally SAW it. Don't even TRY to tell us you believed that "whitch" bullshyt...good_man said:Then one day I saw his name written by her inside her underpants.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
you're gonna find out sooner or later, and you're gonna be hurt.
move on. if you feel she cheated on you, than most likely she has. next her. sorry.