lostintime
Don Juan
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- Aug 6, 2020
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Your gut/intuition will tell you. Always trust it.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Men shouldn't feel happy because a girl likes them. That is a pride and is a sin according the bible. Same as a man shouldn't be upset if a girl doesn't like them. Again that's a pride issue.You sound like a highly charged sexual magnet.
Anything zero to a hundred. If feminist, BLM, and or any affiliated with terrorism or other media indoctrination, nextWhat are some of the signs you might be dating a mentally unstable or psycho *****. I mean sure we talk about RED FLAGS or certain type of women to avoid, single moms, girls with daddy issues and ect. But are there certain signs that may say she's just fvckin crazy? Like needy, emotional, making up different sides to the story, lying, taking things the wrong way? One minute everything is cool than the next minute she's complete opposite...
Sorry if im being vague. Just wanted to see what other DJ's think
Speaks with a baby voice.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Exactly. This one in particular chills me to the bone when I listen to her.
A face like that sounding like a baby might open your throat while you sleepExactly. This one in particular chills me to the bone when I listen to her.
and within 15 minutes she will tell the opposite of anything she has just said. both times she really means it.Women talk more then men.
But since they don't have the intelligence as men do, much of their talk is then "crazy".
So next time, when ur women talks crazy, keep quite, don't argue with her, don't try to understand what she's saying and just forget everything that's said.
Because she is just trying to fulfil her daily quota of 20,000 words per day.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
With practice you can learn to tune women out. Just keep nodding your head and saying "oh" or "really" every few minutes to make them think you're listening.Women talk more then men.
But since they don't have the intelligence as men do, much of their talk is then "crazy".
So next time, when ur women talks crazy, keep quite, don't argue with her, don't try to understand what she's saying and just forget everything that's said.
Because she is just trying to fulfil her daily quota of 20,000 words per day.
When a woman talks crazy, just treat it as fake news.With practice you can learn to tune women out. Just keep nodding your head and saying "oh" or "really" every few minutes to make them think you're listening.
TrueSpeaks with a baby voice.
I believe indicates that her development was arrested in her pre-teen years, again by some kind of trauma.