lostintime
Don Juan
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Your gut/intuition will tell you. Always trust it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Men shouldn't feel happy because a girl likes them. That is a pride and is a sin according the bible. Same as a man shouldn't be upset if a girl doesn't like them. Again that's a pride issue.You sound like a highly charged sexual magnet.
Anything zero to a hundred. If feminist, BLM, and or any affiliated with terrorism or other media indoctrination, nextWhat are some of the signs you might be dating a mentally unstable or psycho *****. I mean sure we talk about RED FLAGS or certain type of women to avoid, single moms, girls with daddy issues and ect. But are there certain signs that may say she's just fvckin crazy? Like needy, emotional, making up different sides to the story, lying, taking things the wrong way? One minute everything is cool than the next minute she's complete opposite...
Sorry if im being vague. Just wanted to see what other DJ's think
Speaks with a baby voice.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exactly. This one in particular chills me to the bone when I listen to her.
A face like that sounding like a baby might open your throat while you sleepExactly. This one in particular chills me to the bone when I listen to her.
and within 15 minutes she will tell the opposite of anything she has just said. both times she really means it.Women talk more then men.
But since they don't have the intelligence as men do, much of their talk is then "crazy".
So next time, when ur women talks crazy, keep quite, don't argue with her, don't try to understand what she's saying and just forget everything that's said.
Because she is just trying to fulfil her daily quota of 20,000 words per day.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
With practice you can learn to tune women out. Just keep nodding your head and saying "oh" or "really" every few minutes to make them think you're listening.Women talk more then men.
But since they don't have the intelligence as men do, much of their talk is then "crazy".
So next time, when ur women talks crazy, keep quite, don't argue with her, don't try to understand what she's saying and just forget everything that's said.
Because she is just trying to fulfil her daily quota of 20,000 words per day.
When a woman talks crazy, just treat it as fake news.With practice you can learn to tune women out. Just keep nodding your head and saying "oh" or "really" every few minutes to make them think you're listening.
TrueSpeaks with a baby voice.
I believe indicates that her development was arrested in her pre-teen years, again by some kind of trauma.