"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to tell if a girl is up for it ?

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So im on the rebound after a breakup. Met this girl last Wednesday went out to a club made out... went our separate ways at the end.

Going out tomorrow night she suggested the cinema so i went along with it... theres no dirty flirting when i talk to her online or in text messages so i have no way to tell....

Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl? Since its only going to be our second time out im a little hesitant to start trying to finger her or something... any advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is
 
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Stud No1 said:
best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is
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She never mentioned anything to do with sex... She seems like a genuinely nice girl.. :S
 
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i duno, maybe give it another date or two first then before worrying about that **** mate

sometimes its a good sign tbh, but dont leave escalation too long or she'll think you're non-sexual
 
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LOL just been talking to her on msn and she just told me shes still in school and not in college like she told me originally... guess that explains it...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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**laurs(",) says:
if u think ur gettin some from me u got another thing coming................
**laurs(",) says:
ya ya sure
Rich //..\\ says:
lool
**laurs(",) says:
typical guy for yeah
**laurs(",) says:

Rich //..\\ says:
typical girl for ya
Rich //..\\ says:
always jumping to conclusions
**laurs(",) says:
later
Rich //..\\ says:
bye
 
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what age does that make her? what age r u?

also, have u even kissed her?
 
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shes 18 but apparently stayed back at school or something... im 19 and finished college (i moved forward a year)

And yeh we kissed and she didn't appreciate my lip biting/sucking technique :S

By the way i live in the UK so clubs + drinking age is 18
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man
 
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well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man
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Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...
 
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Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...
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yeah each to their own. I mean, these days finding a nice genuine girl is a good thing imo. If youre just looking for a notch on your bedpost, you're right, forget her. You are young to be fair and as you say, just out of a relationship

If you were interested in getting involved or even just wanted to see how things go and play it by ear then i would say why not keep in contact. SHe could be a portal to meeting other girls. Anchor her!
 
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A good rule of thumb is that all girls want it. If she doesn't worst thing she tells you is that she doesn't want it at the moment. Who cares? Do you think she hasn't turned down a guy before?

There are ways to read women and tell if they're interested, but in most cases you're better off making the move than not. If a girl is intimately with you, chances are she wants it. Don't let yourself get in your head debating what you should do. Just do it. You'll thank me later.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dood you are expecting to hit it on the first date. Most girls are not that slutty bro.... dont next the girls just because shes not giving it to u on a first date
 
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pingpongz said:
Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl?
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Uhh...the fact that you ask such a silly question shows youre lack of understanding. And from reading the other threads in this post, im guessing you didnt even subtly hide your intentions. Well played, sport :rolleyes:
 
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