"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to tell if a girl is up for it ?

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So im on the rebound after a breakup. Met this girl last Wednesday went out to a club made out... went our separate ways at the end.

Going out tomorrow night she suggested the cinema so i went along with it... theres no dirty flirting when i talk to her online or in text messages so i have no way to tell....

Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl? Since its only going to be our second time out im a little hesitant to start trying to finger her or something... any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is
 
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Stud No1 said:
best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is
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She never mentioned anything to do with sex... She seems like a genuinely nice girl.. :S
 
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i duno, maybe give it another date or two first then before worrying about that **** mate

sometimes its a good sign tbh, but dont leave escalation too long or she'll think you're non-sexual
 
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LOL just been talking to her on msn and she just told me shes still in school and not in college like she told me originally... guess that explains it...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**laurs(",) says:
if u think ur gettin some from me u got another thing coming................
**laurs(",) says:
ya ya sure
Rich //..\\ says:
lool
**laurs(",) says:
typical guy for yeah
**laurs(",) says:

Rich //..\\ says:
typical girl for ya
Rich //..\\ says:
always jumping to conclusions
**laurs(",) says:
later
Rich //..\\ says:
bye
 
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what age does that make her? what age r u?

also, have u even kissed her?
 
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shes 18 but apparently stayed back at school or something... im 19 and finished college (i moved forward a year)

And yeh we kissed and she didn't appreciate my lip biting/sucking technique :S

By the way i live in the UK so clubs + drinking age is 18
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man
 
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well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man
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Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...
 
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Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...
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yeah each to their own. I mean, these days finding a nice genuine girl is a good thing imo. If youre just looking for a notch on your bedpost, you're right, forget her. You are young to be fair and as you say, just out of a relationship

If you were interested in getting involved or even just wanted to see how things go and play it by ear then i would say why not keep in contact. SHe could be a portal to meeting other girls. Anchor her!
 
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A good rule of thumb is that all girls want it. If she doesn't worst thing she tells you is that she doesn't want it at the moment. Who cares? Do you think she hasn't turned down a guy before?

There are ways to read women and tell if they're interested, but in most cases you're better off making the move than not. If a girl is intimately with you, chances are she wants it. Don't let yourself get in your head debating what you should do. Just do it. You'll thank me later.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dood you are expecting to hit it on the first date. Most girls are not that slutty bro.... dont next the girls just because shes not giving it to u on a first date
 
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pingpongz said:
Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl?
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Uhh...the fact that you ask such a silly question shows youre lack of understanding. And from reading the other threads in this post, im guessing you didnt even subtly hide your intentions. Well played, sport :rolleyes:
 
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