How to tell if a girl is up for it ?

[pingpongz]

So im on the rebound after a breakup. Met this girl last Wednesday went out to a club made out... went our separate ways at the end.

Going out tomorrow night she suggested the cinema so i went along with it... theres no dirty flirting when i talk to her online or in text messages so i have no way to tell....

Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl? Since its only going to be our second time out im a little hesitant to start trying to finger her or something... any advice?

 

[Stud No1]

best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is

 

[pingpongz]

best thing is to make he as comfortable as possible and usually you can tell how into it she is

She never mentioned anything to do with sex... She seems like a genuinely nice girl.. :S

 

[Stud No1]

i duno, maybe give it another date or two first then before worrying about that **** mate

sometimes its a good sign tbh, but dont leave escalation too long or she'll think you're non-sexual

 

[pingpongz]

LOL just been talking to her on msn and she just told me shes still in school and not in college like she told me originally... guess that explains it...

 

[pingpongz]

**laurs(",) says:
if u think ur gettin some from me u got another thing coming................
**laurs(",) says:
ya ya sure
Rich //..\\ says:
lool
**laurs(",) says:
typical guy for yeah
**laurs(",) says:

Rich //..\\ says:
typical girl for ya
Rich //..\\ says:
always jumping to conclusions
**laurs(",) says:
later
Rich //..\\ says:
bye

 

[pingpongz]

time for a new girl me thinks

 

[Stud No1]

what age does that make her? what age r u?

also, have u even kissed her?

 

[Stud No1]

edit apart from at the club?

 

[pingpongz]

shes 18 but apparently stayed back at school or something... im 19 and finished college (i moved forward a year)

And yeh we kissed and she didn't appreciate my lip biting/sucking technique :S

By the way i live in the UK so clubs + drinking age is 18

 

[Stud No1]

well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man

 

[pingpongz]

well thats no biggie

whats the problem? just go with the flow! laugh at her thinking that and take her on another date man

Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...

 

[Stud No1]

Nah... dont think so... shes probally still a virgin and wont be worth the trouble trying to get her to give it up...

yeah each to their own. I mean, these days finding a nice genuine girl is a good thing imo. If youre just looking for a notch on your bedpost, you're right, forget her. You are young to be fair and as you say, just out of a relationship

If you were interested in getting involved or even just wanted to see how things go and play it by ear then i would say why not keep in contact. SHe could be a portal to meeting other girls. Anchor her!

 

[WC2]

A good rule of thumb is that all girls want it. If she doesn't worst thing she tells you is that she doesn't want it at the moment. Who cares? Do you think she hasn't turned down a guy before?

There are ways to read women and tell if they're interested, but in most cases you're better off making the move than not. If a girl is intimately with you, chances are she wants it. Don't let yourself get in your head debating what you should do. Just do it. You'll thank me later.

 

[Stud No1]

yep, you're failing the first **** test by giving up tbh

 

[Prodigy746]

Dood you are expecting to hit it on the first date. Most girls are not that slutty bro.... dont next the girls just because shes not giving it to u on a first date

 

[oakraiderz2]

Is there a simple way of asking her if shes gonna take it and not be an innocent prissy girl?

Uhh...the fact that you ask such a silly question shows youre lack of understanding. And from reading the other threads in this post, im guessing you didnt even subtly hide your intentions. Well played, sport