You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?joekerr31 said:you dont ask. you slide your hand in her pants and start fingering her.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
if she lets you fingerbang her im sure she'll be ok with you penisbang her also.big_jeffry said:so you're saying if she lets me finger her, she will more than likely let me bang her
base 1 - kissing~attrACTION~ said:I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?
joekerr31 said:base 1 - kissing
base 2 - feeling her up (boobs)
base 3 - everything but penetration
home run - sex
grand slam - she sucks your wang after you've been in her OR she asks you to blow your load on her face.
but then again, im in my 30s, the bases might have changed with the younger crowd.