Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?joekerr31 said:you dont ask. you slide your hand in her pants and start fingering her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
if she lets you fingerbang her im sure she'll be ok with you penisbang her also.big_jeffry said:so you're saying if she lets me finger her, she will more than likely let me bang her
base 1 - kissing~attrACTION~ said:I thought that fingering is second base. If not, can someone please clarify the bases?
joekerr31 said:base 1 - kissing
base 2 - feeling her up (boobs)
base 3 - everything but penetration
home run - sex
grand slam - she sucks your wang after you've been in her OR she asks you to blow your load on her face.
but then again, im in my 30s, the bases might have changed with the younger crowd.